The word CHANGE -

Ever since we step into this world, the only constancy in our lives is change. The word in itself has a lot of significance. Not just to me...but to every individual who would have felt the changes in and around them. Those who realize them,can learn and move on in life,accept the good changes and further change the bad ones...but CHANGE is a must........
Everything changes...not just who you are and what kind of a situation u r in...but your relationships,your thinking, your judgement,the rights,the wrongs..and of course our very own dynamic world. And the best way to survive is to change yourself with the changes around you.Not an easy task if you are a stubborn person like me...takes a lot of energy and work...but its not impossible. But how far would you change yourself to fit into the world...to make yourself acceptable to society? In the past 3 years....Ihave seen my life change....cant make a judgement of good and bad because its been both but its definitely changed me....but is it the same for all?
We are all brought up with certain 'values' which are nurtured in us from our childhood and which we tend to cherish as we grow up. But somtimes these values bind you....the moral sense kicks in when you have to fight for your rights, when you are in a do or die situation,or when you have to fight for what you deserve. But how far can one go when they stick to the age-old values of 'honesty,faith,trust,belief,friendship and love'? Not many understand the meaning of these words....and to them its only 'words'...but to many...these values make them who they are.....but can they survive in this world where you have to fight for what you want? Where treachery,treason,manipulation plays an important role to succeed? Unfortunately, these values are dying down today and so is their importance.....Herbert's Theory of 'Survival of the Fittest' is reality. Those who can change themselves and compromise on their values survive and tend to succeed...unlike many who are ready to lead decent lives based on their values,with dignity,peace and honour,without any pretense and fake material. Cheers to those who have survived and made it big in life!